Pop, It’s the Present

Posted on April 4th, 2018 in Blog, pictures by Michelle. 4 Comments

Lately it has been difficult for me and my husband, only because I’ve been hurting him as I continued to go behind his back and lying about things I’ve done, like spending money we don’t have on stuff I don’t need like artwork or even material things like purses, toys, and etc; What was the point of hurting him? Making that trust go away? Breaking it and making him cry (my husband is very emotional) and it made me realize that I have to try harder, and somehow, I must be better for the sake of our future and even the present. Plus, the trust we have is broken and I’m trying to reconcile with him and persuade him that I WILL change. I’m determined to have kids and we can’t in our future if I continue to hurt our finances, and so, for the present and future’s sake, I will do this. As Yoda says so wisely: There is no try, only do. Also, tomorrow on the 5th is my husband’s birthday and he’s turning 34. ^^

While I’m doing that with my husband, we managed to have fun on Easter Sunday and while we don’t celebrate it with family or at all, we saw Ready Player One which I had reservations at first but after giving it a chance, I can only say: FUCKING WOW. SO much nostalgia with throwbacks to the 80’s and the 70’s plus some modern stuff which is great. The story itself is pretty cool and while it has familiar beats to it as it’s been done before, it’s still worth watching. Please support this movie! And the added bonus is that Steven Spielberg directed this and he has directed some of the greatest movies ever made like E.T and such.

I managed to get a few things from 1. Japan and 2. in my local reseller stores which were both amazing in itself.

Universal Studios Japan: Sailor Moon
Vocaloid and Idol Master
Then we managed to rearrange our living room and by that, I mean getting rid of a terrible brown couch that we got second hand and reusing the love seat and chair from my in-laws. Whatcha think of the chair and love seat? I quite love them and they are in great condition too!

Though I am happy to report that Marley’s separation anxiety is nonexistent and it’s all due to the efforts of myself and her, too. It means that I can leave her alone for a few hours without worrying about her. I trust her that she won’t be scared or anxious without me.

Making mistakes is all a part of our nature. I’m sure that things will work out between you and your hubby. Hang in there. <3

Posted on April 5th, 2018, at 6:41 AM by Amy.

Hope you manage to sort everything out. That can’t be easy to deal with but hopefully it will all get better.

Glad you enjoyed your Easter!

Posted on April 6th, 2018, at 12:48 AM by Ongaku.

I hope you can get your issues with you and your husband all worked out. I remember having a buying issue but then got myself in real big trouble once I actually had to use big amounts of money on bills and stuff. I hardly buy anything anymore… not even clothes these days. Got to work on all my medical loans and stuff.
Happy Birthday to your husband! 🙂
That love seat and chair looks real nice, like old time uuuhh I can’t think of the word! Dang this brain of mine, haha.

Posted on April 6th, 2018, at 6:57 PM by Eirene.

Glad you had a fun Easter day! I hope everything’s sorted with your husband. Everyone makes mistakes. The best you can do is learn from them.